When a girl is head over heels about herself it is truly amazing. She is the girl you see glowing more than anyone else around her. Is it because she is conceited? Perhaps she is just comfortable with whom she is; appreciating herself no matter her color, shape and size. She is all that and then some no matter what anyone else may think. Wonder what her secret is?
Well when ever I feel like I’m slipping; I look at the wonderful women around me. I look at my mom and remember her struggles and triumph but most importantly how she holds her self together. The more beautiful my mom is inside and out reminds me exactly who I am. BEAUTIFUL!
My mom always told me, "there is nothing worst than a gorgeous girl being ugly". She is right, we have to work with what we have and own it. It is not about being more appealing than the other girls; it is simply about loving yourself and appreciating who you are. Kimora Lee Simons says it best in her book, Fabulosity, "Fake it until you make it. I don’t mean to fake being somebody you’re not or being a phony. I mean tell yourself you’re great even when some part of you is doubting it".
Kimora also believes every girl should feel beautiful no matter where you come from or what you look like. I totally agree with her. If you’re that slim girl who wants to have a bigger butt or the girl who is a size 10 and want to be a size 2 ; think of the many girls who would die to be your size. I bet you will start loving yourself a little more and besides what is the harm?
Love Madame Q
