Going boy crazy is for teenagers! I remember the days in grade school when my friends and I would lust over the boys on the basketball team and the cutie from fifth period class. Nowadays it is hard to have a bunch of qualified hot males. There are many good looking men but they are either taken, gay, annoying, corny, retarded or all of the above. A phone book full of numbers but none of them worthy to call or good enough for you to flaunt that sexy black dress. Just tired of the same games and lame excuses.
Every one has their flaws; no one is perfect and you should not expect anyone to be। We have to have high standards and confidence in ourselves। Trust me all my male friends tell me there is nothing more sexier than a confident woman! Having high standards mean you do not settle for less। There is always going to be a guy that does not have a job but seem to be too busy for you. Also the guy with a job and is doing everything but you! It is funny but not that funny when you start excepting it.
So does this mean we give up on total packages? Do we lower our standards? Hell No! We keep our standards high, keep ourselves in order and wait for the right one to come along or go get the person yourself. Put your foot down and demand what you want.It is not like how it was in sixth or 12th grade when your crush asks you out for a movie. If you like someone and the vibe is right just go for it!
But before you put yourself in the market; most importantly get to know yourself so you could know what you want. Ask yourself some questions. What do I need? What can I offer? What do I need to work on? That is just a few of the things you should ask yourself. However ladies when you’re out on a date let the conversation flow. Do not scare them off or make the person feel uncomfortable. Most questions are answered with out you actually asking the person. Observe and listen to your date; you would learn enough to know whether or not you would go on a second.
Let things fall in place on its own। I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and what is meant to be truly would be. We just need to be cautious about the choices we make because every choice has aftermath. We shall no longer sit around waiting to be crushed. Life is definitely too short.
Love madame Q
