Wednesday, February 23, 2011
This Year's #Much Needed: Ladies' Night Out!
February is always a full time party for me, so many bday celebrations. Can you imagine the craziness? It's the 23rd day in and I'm seriously just catching my breath from days full of over the top fun. Hanging out with the ladies is always great, we share our drama, especially the stuff we can't say over the phone or through a text message. We get to let out and be wild and don't care who sees. We get to wear the dress we've been dreaming about all week and those shoes that hurt but don't care because w it's Ladies' Night Out and we deserves all the necessary attention.
This year let LNO happen frequently, it's therapeutic especially when it's with your best girlies. For some of us it's a mixture of family and friends or just one or the other. How ever you have it, take advantage of the moments you share, trust me you'll find yourself being saved a few times. I know I do! I love laughing at what we share and the stupid things we do. I admit that I sometimes hate it when my girlies keep it too real with me at times but love the fact they care.
This year the girls and I have decided to be fearless so we're doing things out of our norm. Our most favorite LNO was to... SIN City! Don't judge... we had major fun and tipped all the best dancers! We loved their moves so much, we scheduled pole dancing classes two days later and I must say some of us are pretty damn flexible :).
I hope you enjoy the pics from some of our LNOs!
xoxo Madame Q
Monday, February 14, 2011
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Intimate Obsessions: Getting Out Your Comfort Zone
Ladies I know were juggling a thousand things at once but there is no excuse for tacky underwear. Some of us are hanging on to those cotton panties that should've been ditched long ago, yes the ones that has "leave me alone" written all over them, throw them away. Fast PLEASE! What about that favorite bra we won't give up? The wire is out and the shape gives nothing, yes it's time to throw that crap away too. Your intimate wardrobe is way over due for an upgrade. It doesn't matter if you single, a mother of 5, married for 10 years or a virgin, our underwear is important. Intimacy starts within and bras and panties are the greatest accessory. Don't wait until V Day to get that something sexy from your partner or you buying "lucky panties" just to score. Bring out that sexy B$TcH all year round!
Trust me I've been there and thought I was long gone from crazy habits but then realized...
I've been working for a top lingerie apparel company for the last 4 years and although I have great intimate apparel, I stick with my basic routine: a black push up bra and a matching black thong or hip cheekie. I buy color all the time but find myself only wearing them once in a blue moon. I wear push up bras because I love the cleavage and I hardly ever wear, well almost never wear any without padding. I realized I've been stuck in the same routine for years! It happens to the best of us but we have to switch it up. How many of you out there are stuck in the same routine and dying to try something new? As for me, I'm going shopping for unlined bras preferably lace in bright colors and I will update you on my ventures hopefully you'll be inspired to change your norm too.
Stay tuned for more on intimate obsessions!
xoxo Madame Q
#LoveIsMusic
This song is dedicated to all the love birds.... May you enjoy being together and build only to be stronger as one.
xoxo Madame Q
Friday, February 4, 2011
Oh, Love
Were 4 days into this crazy month of love and 10 days away from that one day that gets every female going crazy. Cupid has his tricks and treats this year, well at least for me he does. Many of you are in love with that one guy who stole you're heart years ago, some may have just laid eyes on that special one, some are dating for fun and others may be heart broken or in a ruff spot this year. Either way, LOVE is on all of our minds and for some strange reason February is always the highlighted month for it all. WHY? I guess it's because of all the marketing and media overload people always seem to fall into the Valentine craze but if we feel special all year around, Valentine's Day will just be another day. Easier said than done, right?
Love will never be easy and finding the right one comes with a lot of struggle. We just need to get to the bottom of what we want and I think it might clear out a lot of fog. Why should we settle for less? We as females are protective and love to conquer and get high off feeling like we won our lover's heart. My cousin Brisette said something to me the other day that struck me deeply, "Why should we always be the one who works it out and stay around?, Why can't we learn to be the girl that got away?" She's right, sometimes walking away and letting things work it on it's own is best but it's just not that easy for many.
This month for you and I, I'm writing about that four letter word that drives us insane and to the deep end. Stuff people wouldn't dare to write about, I surely will. It's the point of no return and who ever decides to tune it, great, just hold on to your seat. It will be a bumpy road but a much needed destination.
xoxo Madame Q
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